The other day I was driving to work, nothing unusual, and
the song “Outside” by Calvin Harris and Ellie Goulding started playing on z100.
So I did what I always do, I sang along.
As I was singing (badly I might add), I realized that I was
starting to think about how I felt in my sorority after graduation, about
leaving my chapter, at being on the “outside”, an alumni sister, not an active
sister.
While I am sure this song was most like not written to
describe the feelings on recent sorority graduates, it really does describe
what it is like being a new graduate of a sorority and in many ways tells you
what you need to hear about it.
The main statement in the entire song, which is repeated
several times, is as follows:
“I'll show you what it feels like
Now I'm on the outside
We did everything right
Now I'm on the outside "
The line “we did
everything right, now I am on the outside” stands out to me because as
sorority women, we made the right choice to join and participate in our
chapters, now that we are moving on and we have to let the women who followed,
the women we helped select and mold, take over the chapter as we watch from a
safe distance.
While it is not as dramatic as the song sounds, as alumni we
are still very active in our chapters, I know I still am, it reminds up that at
the end of the day that our time as a college sorority women is official behind
us, and we now have to help our chapters grow and prosper outside the walls of
active sisterhood.
Needless to say, now every time I hear the song I can’t help
but think of being alumni in a sorority.
Take a listen and let #sgt know if you hear it too!
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