Believe them

       My mother has always said to me " When someone shows you who they are believe them." They are not going to change most likely things will only get worse. Girls tend to give more chances to people than we should. We don't want to be seen as mean, we want everyone to like us. I've learned however that everyone liking you really isn't all that important. I don't need someone who treats me badly to like me. I need to keep it moving. I have learned that walking away is sometimes the best option. If someone has not been treating you well do you really owe them an explanation? No you don't. You don't need to have a fight, argue, or otherwise waste your energy. Instead you hold more power if you can simply walk away from the situation and not look back. If you don't look back they will believe you, you are sending a clear message that you are done without saying a word. It's really hard sometimes to say enough is enough but we all have to do it.
      Or at least you have to move on if you want to make room in your life for something better. Letting go is hard but 99% of the time there is something better out there for you. Think before you run after people, there may be a reason God is opening a door for them to exit your life. Not everyone turns out to be who you thought they were. Believe it when someone shows you who they really are. They really are not worth your time.