Friday, October 17, 2014

Refection: Being in Sorority Post-Grad



It still sometimes hard to believe that I graduated from college over a year and a half ago, in many ways if feels just yesterday and in other ways it feels like a lifetime ago.

  Granted, I was at Pace University and extra year perusing my masters’ degree in Media Communications Arts, but I was also a graduate assistant in the Greek Life office and thus could not be active.

When I was a graduated assistant, my main goal was to not only do a good job but to also ensure that it never appeared that I was playing favorites, specifically with my chapter. Luckily, there were two people in my position.  Will, my PIC (partner in crime) was also Greek while he was on campus. Thus, I guess it was easy for the Assistant Director of Greek Life to have us work with different councils than we were apart of.  This means I worked with cultural organizations and Will worked with social organizations.

Though I was unable to be active, I did see my sisters often, in the office, in the cafeteria, at events and when I was free to hang out.  It was always nice to spend time with them and catch up. 

This past weekend I went back to Pace to see my sisters at one of their events. Even now, when I am not on campus, I never feel weird about seeing them. It is never awkward; it is always like picking up where I left off. To me, that proves the power of sisterhood.  


So in reflection, the power if sisterhood lies in the relationships you build while you are there. Yes, your chapter will be constantly evolving but so long as you foster relationships long after your graduation year, you will always feel apart of your organization forever. Remember: The faces may change but the memories off how everyone connects.

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